Your ‘5 a day’ nourishing yoga poses

By Lindsey Porter, Smart Works Edinburgh volunteer and owner of www.yoganuu.com

For the 5^th and final article on our theme of ‘5 a day’ to enhance your wellbeing – find here 5 yoga poses I suggest building into your daily routine. It may be helpful to get into this new positive habit by asking yourself the following, ‘What needs to be true for you to undertake these recommended stretches/positions so that you can nourish yourself inside and out regularly?’ And then seek to make those adjustments. And although some of the pics I’ve shown here are doing yoga outdoors please feel able to take your yoga wherever you feel comfortable.

“Yoga adds years to your life and life to your years.”

Suppleness of the spine. Back bends & forward bends.
A spine that can flex will literally stand you well in life and especially into your senior years. It’s never too soon or too late to start. Begin gently though and listen to your body. A great place to start is first thing in the morning, come on to all fours on the floor, making sure your shoulders, elbows and wrists are stacked over each other for good alignment and the same with the hips over knees. From here as you exhale flex your spine by arching it up, whilst drawing your abdomen in towards your back ribs, dropping the head and neck down. Move into a neutral flat-back position and then dip your back down so that your pelvis tilts up and your head, chin and gaze tilt upwards too. Once you feel comfortable doing this you can explore and deepen your spinal postures, such as into wheel pictured below. There are many great instructions available through google. This short sequence is known as Cat/Cow or Marjariasana pose.

Cow (whilst inhaling)

Cow (whilst inhaling)

Bridge/ wheel pose (Chakrasana)

A breath of fresh air. Pranayama.
Let out the old and bring in the new. A simple deep, full breath in and out can do this. For a good dose of yogic type breathing ensure you fill your lungs and allow your belly to expand and diaphragm round out. This helps expel stale air often trapped in our lower lungs as we typically breathe into the upper part of our chest. Go deeper by exploring Anulom Vilom, an alternative nostril breathing sequence. It’s a simple and effective way to aid awareness of the breath, bring about a sense of calmness as well as balance to your body, mind and spirit.

Alternate nostril breathing (Anulom Vilom)

Change your view. Inversions – head below the heart.                                                             Shake it up a bit. Challenge yourself in new ways often to keep stagnant thoughts, mind and body at bay. A simple putting your head below your heart can help achieve this. This is what any inversion posture does from the yogic headstand to a standing forward fold bringing your head towards your shin or knees. Find at least one you feel comfortable with and go from there. In most cases, when I work with my students, particularly new ones, they come with a fear of headstands. And always they leave with a sense of elation when they have managed in some way to embrace that fear and work on a small or big step in their headstand journey. Please take any inversion step by step to make sure you have the necessary shoulder, neck and core strength to support the depth of your chosen posture.

Headstand (Sirsasana)

A twist in the tail. Turning or rotations of the torso.
The beauty of a twist is the compression it gives to our vital organs aiding activities of digestion, elimination and detoxification. Twisting movements can also be found to help release tension, anxiety and to be energising. Please make sure you are aware of any contraindications and modifications right for you before starting your practice. In particular if you have any spinal challenges, injuries, chronic digestive complaints or are pregnant.

Seated Twist Pose ( Ardha Matsyendrasana )

A moment to pause. Relaxation – meditation, mindfulness.                                                       An equally important part of any yoga practice is the time you take to stop and relax during and at the end of a yoga session. This helps the body to absorb the range of movements. It encourages the mind to find new spaces and to explore what’s there. Relaxation can be a guided visualisation or meditation, a head massage, Yoga Nidra or simply lying quietly, listening to subtle music with an eye bag and blanket over you. Do it regularly, even if for 5 mins a day, for a more peaceful existence.

Relaxation pose (Savasana)

5 yoga poses to do each day. 5 ways to help your mind, body and spirit be at its best. 5 articles to help enhance your daily wellbeing. (Click here to read Part I , Part II , Part III and Part IV)

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Namaste.

“My yoga. It doesn’t matter if things aren’t perfect. My practice is my time to feel alive, loved and free.”

Lindsey Porter is an accomplished Project Manager in Financial Services who is now running her own business providing WellBeing Retreats, Yoga classes and other therapies and writing articles on topics she’s passionate about. She is an experienced NLP Practitioner, Reiki Master and Holistic Therapist.

HOW TO- Explain a gap in your CV

It’s important to realise when job hunting that not everyone has a perfect CV. Some people are lucky and have gone straight from school into further education followed by volunteering abroad and into paid work with no breaks. Others have different experiences, and for various reasons you may have had periods where you were out of work – perhaps through illness, to have children or maybe you there was a time where you found it difficult to find work. Whatever your CV looks like, it is your CV and it reflects your life experience to date.

There is no point in comparing it to anyone else’s – no-one else has lived your life. You are unique – so celebrate that fact!

When it comes to interviews you will almost certainly be asked about any gaps in your CV. Potential employers are always interested in your previous work history and why there may have been periods when you didn’t work. I always advocate an ‘honesty is the best policy’ approach. I would be truthful about the reasons why there are gaps in your CV. I would aim to present the reasons in a positive way explaining what you learned from this period in your life. Remember, that if you didn’t work because this was a challenging time in your life, then you will have grown during this period and probably learned a lot about yourself. We grow on a personal level far more in tough times than we do when life is easy. The fact that you are being interviewed now means that you are back and ready to work. If you have been at home raising children, then acknowledge this is one of the most challenging jobs in the world. The skills you learn as a parent will stand you in good stead to tackle any role! Don’t forget to mention any voluntary work you have done during this period. People often forget to mention work that is unpaid as though it is somehow less valuable than paid work. Voluntary work is a job like any other, the only difference is that you don’t receive any money. You will still make a contribution and gain valuable skills doing any kind of work, paid and unpaid so mention everything which is relevant to the job you are applying for. Employers are interested in it all.

 

Now, imagine you have secured an interview for your dream job. You are busy preparing – deciding what to wear, making notes of good work examples you can use in answer to interview questions. However, you have been dismissed from an earlier job and you know you are going to be asked about this. How do you reply? I am going to repeat my earlier advice and suggest you go with an honest approach. It’s vital to be aware that interviewers will sense if you are lying. We all unconsciously read each other’s body language all the time.  Studies of communication have shown that the words we use only account for around 7% of the message we are trying to convey. Our tone of voice accounts for around 38% and our body language accounts for roughly 55%.

This is helpful to know because if you are about to explain something about which you feel embarrassed or uncomfortable, e.g. you were fired from your last job for persistent lateness, then you need to consider not only WHAT you say but more importantly HOW you say it. If you are explaining this scenario to a prospective employer then be open and honest, try to keep your body language relaxed and maintain a reasonable level of eye contact (without staring!). Keep your tone steady. As in the previous example of gaps in your CV, explain what you learned from this experience and also how have worked to ensure that it doesn’t happen again.

Always bear in mind that we are all human and we all make mistakes. The person sitting across from you, interviewing you, is human too and they will also have made errors in their life. I can absolutely guarantee you that. It’s not so much the mistakes we make in life but how we learn from them and avoid repeating them.  What I do know from years of interviewing candidates is that I respect honesty and I can tell when I am being lied to.

So, embrace your CV with its gaps and quirks. Be open and honest, and to quote Oscar Wilde, ‘be yourself, everyone else is already taken’. Good luck.

Author : Ashley Moray, Volunteer at Smart Works Edinburgh

 

Your ‘5 a day’ to more flexibility

By Lindsey Porter, Smart Works Edinburgh volunteer and owner of www.yoganuu.com

Continuing my belief that just as ‘5 a day’ of helpings of fruit and veg helps us to sustain a balanced healthy lifestyle, 5 a day of other activities can also support our greater wellbeing. This article offers 5 ways to help keep flexible. Being able to adapt to whatever comes our way has to be worth thinking about doesn’t it?

As always if you find you do some or all of these things already, then acknowledge the good work you’re doing and spread the word.

1. The short cut and the long way. Allow some room during your life for taking the ‘other path’. Giving yourself permission to view different options on how to get from A to B can help overcome unforeseen obstacles, frustrations and give us a better chance to life with a positive happy mind set.
2. Glass half empty or full? Being able to look at a bad situation and pull out some positives can help keep your mental health in good shape. It can also help avoid the downward spiral of negativity that can appear when we least need it. If you feel stuck in your reaction to things, try asking yourself who’s voice is that talking? By questioning where that comes from, it can free you from experiences of the past that sometimes subconsciously drive our responses. By making the process more conscious this can allow you to release past events, change your reaction and to move on.
3. Flex the body. Yoga is great for encouraging flexibility through your body, muscles, joints and especially suppleness through the spine. We know the ageing process sees joints become stiffer, bones compress and our movement often suffers. Help counteract this process by introducing some regular yoga into your life. A few postures at home or at a class, even keeping it low intensity will help. Benefits can be felt from doing chair yoga. Whatever fits with your lifestyle, make time.
4. Hack through routines. Constrained by time and find it easier to follow the same old routines? Open yourself up to ‘life hacks’ a term used to cover a multitude of suggestions on how to get stuff done in quicker easier way or recycling/using stuff you already have in a cool new way. For example, use an old bottle of suntan lotion to hide your money and keys in when at the beach by cutting across the top then placing the lid back over it. Another example; freeze any past-its-best wine into an ice tray and use for cooking. Add a cube or two into a hotpot or stew! Google ‘life hacks’ and you’ll soon be brimming with new ideas of how to be more flexible with stuff!

5. See flexibility as exploration. I encourage you to make stuff up! There are enough rules, regulations and unwritten rules in life. When you can, embrace your inner rebel and try things in a different way. For example, if you always follow a recipe to the T, allow yourself a cooking experiment where you guess at volumes, add in a few random ingredients from your cupboards and see what happens. You could find some new creations and open your mind up to new possibilities. Last autumn I discovered homemade spicy apple chutney made with Garam Masala spice works a treat!

“Do Yoga so that you can stay flexible enough to kick your own arse if necessary!”

(This blog is part IV of a many part series by author Lindsey Porter. Click here to read Part I , Part II , Part III)

Lindsey Porter is an accomplished Project Manager in Financial Services who is now running her own business providing WellBeing Retreats, Yoga classes and other therapies and writing articles on topics she’s passionate about. She is an experienced NLP Practitioner, Reiki Master and Holistic Therapist.

SW Edinburgh supporting prisoners back to employment

For many of us, wearing office attire like suits and high heels, is extremely routine and non-exciting. However, a majority of prisoners have no clue on how to dress for a job or what a nice suit can do to their look and confidence. Smart Works Edinburgh is developing strong relationships with Cornton Vale and Edinburgh prisons with the aim of creating awareness of our services so that we can support prisoners once they have been released.

As part of this project a team of Smart Works volunteers recently worked closely with a group of women prisoners and created a fashion show for their fellow inmates. Excitement, terror, embarrassment and fear of the unknown were some of the emotions experienced by both prisoners and volunteers at the start of the day.

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The models aglow with fake tan, hair done and make up on, were eager, excited and nervous. Dressed in SW’s finest attire they looked fantastic. Some of them had never worn a skirt or dress before let alone high heels but they completely embraced the whole experience overcoming their anxiety and ready to give it their all. After a volunteer introduced the charity, the DJ played songs selected by the girls and for 50 minutes the unit was filled with music, laughter, applause as the girls strutted their stuff in front of the crowd of fellow inmates.

The grand finale was lead by the much respected unit manager, Helen, who came on in an emerald green mac with a black and gold spotty satchel leading the girls out one more time which finished the whole event off perfectly.

Helen, the unit manager, said:

“the buzz of the show will stay with the women and staff in the unit for a long time and will help with morale and general well being”

Quote from one of the volunteers:

“Today we all got to see young women who needed to feel valued in themselves, to feel pride and to see that they had something to offer the world. From the laughter and smiles coupled with nervous energy 6 young women got to feel like young women who weren’t judged on what they had done but felt special and hopefully the event inspired them to see that there are people out there to be part of their new journey.”

We had some good feedback from the prisoners as well. The best being:

“Do it more often. When’s the next one?”

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This event has been a milestone in Smart Works Edinburgh’s journey.

For those soon to be released there is now awareness of the service provided by Smart Works and the sensitivity and caring nature of the volunteers has had a powerful impact on them. We will continue to work with the prison to ensure that they encourage prisoners to use our services on release and support these prisoners back into employment. 

Meet our volunteer – Sarah

“I love to see the reaction of our clients once we have dressed them.  They are often speechless because they are so happy and feeling so different.  Sometimes there are tears because they are so emotional.  Many of them feel overwhelmed when they realise that this service is free.”

As part of National Volunteer’s Week(1st-12thJune| Yes, we know it’s more than a week), we are introducing some of the amazing women who volunteer for us.

Meet Sarah. One of our 50 strong volunteers who take time from their busy schedules, to make numerous women feel empowered when they walk into our premises. Sarah, is a DRESSING VOLUNTEER. (She is a stockroom room volunteer as well. To know more about this role, click here. )

“My dining room was know as the board room” – Sarah, dressing volunteer

 

So what does this role involve? It’s the toughest job in the world- Getting a woman dressed in the span of an hour(Sarcasm intended !). It is not EASY. But, it is the most rewarding role. Dressing volunteers usually work in pairs. They make our clients feel comfortable, treat them with respect and most importantly LISTEN and understand what the client wants. A dressing volunteer helps the client choose the perfect outfit for her interview. They get all the accessories, bags, shoes, scarves, EVERYTHING sorted and ready, according to the client.

In her own words, Sarah describes how she started volunteering with us.

“I started at Smart Works almost right from the beginning.  I met with Frippy when she was a few months into writing the business plan with another colleague.  From then on, we used to meet at my house weekly and sometimes two or three times a week, my dining room was known as the ‘Board Room’.  We worked hard for a year to get Smart Works up and running.  

I joined up with Frippy because she was looking for someone to help; I was in between jobs and wondering what to do next and when she suggested it, it really got me excited! “

I loved the idea of Smart Works and it was also exciting to help set up something new in Edinburgh.

When we asked asked what the best part of the job was:

“It is extremely rewarding dressing clients and I get a lot from that.  I love to see a happy and more confident woman when they walk out of the office.  We feel that we help transform them and Smart Works really does help them to feel more confident and ready for the work place. Hopefully the start of something new for them.”

Sarah is one amongst the many dedicated volunteers who come to our organisation and make EVERY SINGLE CLIENT feel like a million bucks. If you would like to know more check the About Us section and give us a call.

Picture credit : https://www.facebook.com/barbara.ostrowska.79

Meet our Volunteer – Clare

As part of National Volunteers week we thought it would be a good idea to introduce some of the wonderful people who volunteer with us.

Our first feature for the week is Clare. She’s an interview training volunteer who has been with Smart Works Edinburgh since early 2014. She’s been associated with us even before we got our office space in Edinburgh.

So what do interview volunteers do? Quite simply put, they help the client prepare for her job interview. This could range from helping her to find answers for general interview questions, help explain CV gaps better, how to sit, stand, breathe(for nerves) and exude confidence in her interview. Some of the women who come to us do not realise that they have a lot of skills to offer a potential employer. Volunteers like Clare, help them think about their interests and other transferrable skills. Most importantly, interview training volunteers boost the client’s CONFIDENCE in herself and her skills.

Clare, who has been volunteering for little over 2years with us, felt that there was little practical help available to support women in particular in being successful at interviews. She wanted to help women achieve their aspirations by getting the job they wanted.(So glad that she decided to volunteer for us!)

She has over 35 years of experience in the IT sector, starting work as a software engineer and finally holding the position of Director of Business Development for an Edinburgh based IT company. She is now (early) retired and volunteers with various other charities.

She loves to see the difference an hour’s coaching (and dressing) can make to a woman’s self-esteem, confidence and can-do attitude ! (We love to see that as well!). She enjoys being part of the Smart Works team in Edinburgh and working closely with the dressing volunteers to help prepare women for interviews.

In her own words,

“It is a privilege to volunteer with Smart works and hopefully in some small way make a difference to the women who are on their pathway to employment.”

Your ‘5 a day’ to cultivate a healthy attitude of gratitude

By Lindsey Porter, Smart Works Edinburgh volunteer and owner of www.yoganuu.com

Continuing my belief that just as ‘5 a day’ of helpings of fruit and veg helps us to sustain a balanced healthy lifestyle, 5 a day of other activities can also support our greater wellbeing. Todays article contemplates ways and reminders to bring us into the present and help us cultivate a healthy attitude of gratitude. Why do we care about it? Well it’s thought that being thankful for things starts a chain reaction to happiness as well as a way to heal ourselves.

So to get you started on flexing your gratitude muscles here are 5 things to consider doing on a daily or frequent basis. As always if you find you do some or all of these things already, then acknowledge the good work you’re doing and spread the word.

1. Being grateful for what we don’t have! You might be thinking something like how can I be grateful for not having material wealth, a better job, more patience etc. but here’s the thing what about pausing to be thankful for a whole bunch of things you don’t have that keeps you well. For example and assuming you’re UK based, being grateful we don’t have contaminated dirty water to drink, dangerous wildlife around us, life threatening toxic waste…and you can add more I’m sure.
2. Gratefulness captured. You may have heard of gratitude journals where you write something down everyday that you feel grateful for but how about trying this that I came across – a gratitude jar. Write something down on a slip of paper fold it up and pop into a jar. When you get to the end of week/month/year tip them all out and read them, reflect and allow the bountiful feelings over a period of time wash back over you. If you have others at home why not encourage them to do the same and you could then read each other’s for something different? You can then get as creative as you like with your reminders like make a collage with them!
3. Measuring your gratitude/happiness. Imagine like in the country of Bhutan, situated at the eastern end of the Himalayas we measured nationally our levels of happiness known as GNH (Gross National Happiness). What would be your criteria for measuring it and what score would you give yourself? If you scored yourself low, what actions, even small simples ones, could you take to improve on that number? Bhutan acknowledges even with the measure they are not perfect at providing happiness to citizens but just by outwardly committing to it and becoming more aware it probably makes it better.
4. Reframe, reframe, reframe. Repetitive and perhaps slightly annoying advice but I do believe it can make a big difference in a positive way. Here’s an example you’re in a rush to catch the train to commute to work in the morning, suddenly a car pulls out in front of you and there is an impact. An instant response may be one of frustration and anger at messing up your day but you could also look at it from the point of view that it was fortunate no-one got hurt or suffered physical pain from the accident. And let’s face it, at some point we all make a mindless move in our car. A good reminder is to be more mindful when driving. Become aware of your negative thoughts, stop the downward spiral by pausing and looking to reframe the situation with a positive view on it. It gets easier with practice.
5. Gratitude in action. Similar to one of the points I mentioned in my previous article about Wellbeing, by helping someone else you may find yourself getting something back which can often be a feeling of thankfulness. What could you do? Volunteering your time to help a charity, donating money for needy causes or just giving verbal support to people you know, people you don’t know. Saying a few more ‘thank yous’ during your day. I recently viewed an incredibly moving short clip about a woman’s personal gratitude project – view it at: https://www.facebook.com/Upworthy/videos/1272551406119048/ 

You may remember in the last article I talked about using a visual activity such as when you see a red traffic light to remind you to stop, pause and in this case, use to think about one thing in life you can be grateful for. I hope we’ve sown some seeds for you to grow a healthy attitude of gratitude. See you next time.

“Gratitude turns what we have into enough.”

(This blog is part III of a many part series by author Lindsey Porter. Click here to read Part I , Part II)

Lindsey Porter is an accomplished Project Manager in Financial Services who is now running her own business providing WellBeing Retreats, Yoga classes and other therapies and writing articles on topics she’s passionate about. She is an experienced NLP Practitioner, Reiki Master and Holistic Therapist.

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Your ‘5 a day’ to enhance your general wellbeing

By Lindsey Porter, Smart Works Edinburgh volunteer and owner of www.yoganuu.com

Continuing my belief that just as ‘5 a day’ of helpings of fruit and veg helps us to sustain a balanced healthy lifestyle, 5 a day of other activities can also support our greater wellbeing. Todays article contemplates a more holistic view on ways to enhance our overall wellbeing to bring us nearer to that mental, physical and spiritual balance.

Here are 5 things you can consider doing on a daily or frequent basis to boost your overall feel good-about-yourself factor. And if you find you do some or all of these things already then acknowledge the good work you’re doing and spread the word.

1. YOGA. Of course this is going to be Number One on my list as a long standing yoga practitioner and teacher! But here’s the thing, when I see new people come to my yoga class and start say things like, ‘I slept so well after last week’s class’, ‘my body feels so much better from the lengthening and stretching, ‘coming to your yoga class helped restore peace at home’ it validates how bringing our focus towards the connection between our body, mind and breath rejuvenates us. I suggest trying out as many different types of yoga as it takes to find a style you love and that will help you eagerly return to your yoga mat to explore and benefit from these connections. Also consider introducing a new daily routine in to your life starting with perhaps just one yoga practice. This will help awaken and prepare your body and mind for the day ahead. For example you could start with a 2 minute hip opener practice, best to do first thing in the morning and you can view my short YOUTube version of it at: http://www.yoganuu.com/be-inspired.html
2. WALKING. Not in any old way but in a focussed way. In NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) language we like to call it, mindful walking or walking in another person’s footsteps. The theory is when you would like to perhaps do something in a way you see someone else doing it well or to understand a person’s viewpoint/actions try this approach. Take yourself to a quiet place. Settle your breath, closing your eyes can help and then really start to bring to mind what that person looks like, sounds like and even smells like. Assume what you believe their identity to be and then start to take a few steps in a way that you know or imagine that person would carry themselves. As you continue to walk in this very conscious way you can start to think how that person would look at or approach your situation/challenge whatever it is that’s on your mind. You may find from this exercise you become aware of some fresh perspectives for your specific issue or challenge. When you do, have a go at doing something differently and see what happens. Changing things up and taking a fresh look at something can lead to a better sense of wellbeing in creating a life with a wider approach and more choices.
3. DRINK TEA. So not everyone is a tea drinker and that’s ok. However, whether you drink it regularly or sparingly there is growing support around the health benefits particular types of tea can bring. It’s the high levels of anti oxidants as well as compounds called catechins which are regarded as helping with our concentration and focus. Aj, a friend of mine who I used to work at the same London bank and went trekking in Nepal with back in 1997 (and we definitely savoured our chai tea back then too), co-founded Camellia’s Tea House and is the UK’s first ITEI (International Tea Education Institute) Master Tea Sommelier. There’s a growing range of health and wellness infusions available from health food stores and you can also check out Aj’s amazing range available at: camelliasteahouse.com. Plus, not to be missed is Smart Works Edinburgh’s own Luxury Afternoon Tea, socialising and fundraising event taking place on Friday 20th May, 2016 1.30-4.30pm where you can get your fill of wellbeing in good company. Contact edinburgh@smartworks.org.uk or call 0131 516 7787 for tickets or further information. I’ll be drinking a cup along with you but from our May Scottish Wellbeing Retreat in the remote and tranquil Kinloch Rannoch.                   “Tea is like a hug in a cup.”

4. FIND SOME QUIET TIME. We all know how busy and inundated we are with our to do lists, post it notes or gadgets with reminders going off. At the same time can we honestly justify a good reason for not being able to give ourselves just 5 or 10 minutes in a day. A moment to pause, find some quiet, to zone out and reflect? Some ‘me time’ is a habit worth cultivating and if you need convincing read, listen or watch Andy Puddicombe’s take on how 10 minutes can make all the difference (he has a book ‘Get some HEADspace, phone apps you can get a daily quote from and some TED talks on YOUTube). Over my years working towards some type of ‘meditation’ practice his take on things is getting me the closest. Call it what you want; meditation, me time, mindfulness, or something else, just find a way that gives you a reason to press the pause button long enough to catch your breath, reflect, renew and be able to move on again from a better place.
5. BRING SOME WELLBEING TO SOMEONE ELSE FIRST. Whether you feel connected to your own sense of wellbeing or otherwise, look for ways to bring some wellness into the lives of others and consciously note how you feel in response. It can be the tiniest thing that can make the biggest difference to someone’s day or even their life! For example, you’re stuck at a T junction in a queue due to some temporary traffic lights caused by road works (this seems to happen a lot around my way), suddenly the traffic with the right of way and green light allows you to pull out to merge in turn (letting you avoid a long wait), how does this random act of kindness make you feel? I’m guessing however big or small that feeling, it’s likely to be a positive one. Some refer to it as the law of the universe, karma, where what you give out you receive back or ‘reap what you sow’. Those of you who are already active volunteers may already appreciate the benefits of boosting your own ‘well’ of internal wellness through supporting, encouraging and helping others. I know the Smart Works Edinburgh team certainly appreciates all the hard work and enthusiasm from the volunteer team to make a difference to the clients and their families beyond.

Now you have 5 simple and useful tools, whether as new suggestions or reaffirmations of what you already do. Next try this: attach one or all of these ways of enhancing your wellbeing to a simple ‘trigger’. This will act as a reminder to focus on and acknowledge one to five of your ‘5 a day’. For example, using a traffic analogy, every time you’re in a vehicle and are stopped or see a red traffic light let this be a reminder to focus on what you’re doing about nourishing your wellbeing today. Let me know how you get on… and watch this space for the next 5 a day topic encouraging us towards a better life.

“Create a life that feels good on the inside not one that just looks good on the outside.”

(This blog is part II of a many part series by author Lindsey Porter. Click here to read Part I)

Lindsey Porter is an accomplished Project Manager in Financial Services who is now running her own business providing Well Being Retreats, Yoga classes and other therapies. She is an experienced NLP Practitioner, Reiki Master and Holistic Therapist.

 

Your guide to Scarf Styling- Oblong

Square. Oblong. Embellished. Ruffled. Seasonal. And more. With the endless variety of scarves available, there are even more ways to wear them.

For office wear, the most suitable ones are the square, oblong(skinny and long) and seasonal.

This one is probably the easiest way to wear a scarf:

(Yeah, we didn’t think so)

OR..

You could have a look at the styles created below for the  oblong scarf variety i.e. skinny ones as well as the lengthy.

Style A : This is a bold style- looks preppy with a print or elegant with lace pattern. Pair this with a simple dress, making the bow your statement piece.

Style B : This is the simplest style with straight fold. Can be worn uneven or otherwise.

Style C : This is an intricate style and needs adequate room to display its multiple loops. Try  using a lighter material for this look, as heavier and bulky ones will overwhelm the               detail.

Style D : A simple look, with a twist. Looks best with plain scarves.

Style E and F : Try using an elaborately patterned or interestingly textured scarf for this         style. Looping it several times will highlight the various colours and inter-woven                    materials. Style E is best worn in a heavy material, for chillier weather.

Style G : This works beautifully under a jacket and is ideal with lighter materials.

Style H : Both long and short scarves work for this style, depending on the number of times the scarf is wrapped around the neck.

Style I : This classic style looks best under a coat, with the top knot peeking out for                 additional colour.

Style J : If you use a short scarf and keep the rolled knot close to the neck, this style can be    used for warmth.

Have fun this season trying out these different styles! Coming up soon will be styling for square scarves.

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Ganithaa Vimalakannan

Volunteer at Smartworks Edinburgh

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Your ‘5 a day’ to boost your confidence

Many people subscribe to the notion that ‘5 a day’ helpings of fruit and vegetables helps sustain a balanced healthy lifestyle. Well I believe this idea can easily be extended to other areas of life, of our well being. Here is the first of a series of short articles exploring what other things we can be mindful of achieving during our day to bring us even nearer to that healthy mental, physical and spiritual balance.

This article ‘food for thought’ is on the area of Confidence.

Here are 5 things you can consider doing on a daily or frequent basis to boost your ability to be and feel confident and apply to whatever situation you are facing. Go on give them a try and let me know your experiences unfold.

1. Create a positive anchor that you can tap into when needed.
   This is a great technique that you easily help yourself with. Ask yourself who am I when I’m at my best, my most confident? From there identify a time in your life where you were, felt, looked, sounded at your most confident. Bring that experience back to life, making the picture you see, any sounds you recollect, feelings you remember bigger and brighter than ever and then choose a place in your body to touch/squeeze when you that memory feels strong. For example squeeze the piece of skin between your thumb and forefinger. This is called anchoring that feeling, that ‘state’ to something. It need only take a few moments or minutes to complete. Next time you want to feel ‘that feeling’ just touch the same part of your body and benefit from that strong feeling of supreme confidence, you at your best, coming flooding back. Note, you will need to ‘top back up’ your anchor as you use it. This is a known NLP (neuro linguistic programming) technique which you can read more about from many sources such as books or via online sites or get in touch to explore with me.
2. Hold a power pose for 1-2 minutes before going into a situation where you need to look and feel confident. A significant amount of academic research supports the notion of holding a body power stance, such as the ‘wonder woman’ pose, which is standing with legs hip width apart and with you hands placed on hips. Do this before venturing into something where you need to feel confident such as an interview or giving a presentation and you will likely come across as more confident than you perhaps feel. Curious about how this is so? Find out more by googling Amy Cuddy, a Harvard Professor and the pioneer in this area of social psychology.
3. Catch any negative self talk and deliberately and consciously turn into a positive. Become more consciously aware of your mind chatter and when you hear your inner voice going into negative mode, catch the thought and change it round before it becomes a downward spiral. For example, ‘Oh no I just caught site of my reflection in that shop window as I walked past in my lunch hour and noticed how my tummy looks huge in this dress and I thought it looked ok, I feel fat and rubbish now at everything… turn this spiral of inner chatter into… Oh gosh my belly does show a little more in this dress than I thought but you know what I’m a real woman, I’m wearing this fabulous colour and no-one else is going to notice anyway so keep smiling.’ The good news is the more frequently you start to do this, the easier it becomes and the naturally more positive you may find your thought patterns becoming.
4. Choose your Physiological response. It is regarded as a natural reaction to being nervous or for example if we are put on the spot, to step back and avert your eyes. Instead aim to react by moving/stepping forward and keeping your gaze in triangle area of face between a persons eyes and mouth. This sends an unconscious message to them that you are confident in whatever you are about to say.. another useful one to apply in interview situations!
5. Confidence is humble not arrogance or dominance. Stay aware of that line between confidence and arrogance and keep on the right side of it. You will often notice that truly confident people can share their mistakes and weaknesses in a positive way by focusing on their learning’s from them and moving forward on what to do next. This helps you have a better probability of attaining the outcomes you are looking for in life.

If you liked this and have a particular area of your wellbeing you’d like me to cover, perhaps something you personally struggle with, please drop me a line with your suggestions. Other ‘5 a day’ topics I’m looking to delve into include anxiety, flexibility and mindfulness.

“The future depends on what you do today… true confidence enables you to show up as your best self more often and comfortably.”

 

 

Lindsey Porter
Smart Works Volunteer
www.yoganuu.com

Lindsey Porter is an accomplished Project Manager in Financial Services who is now running her own business providing Well Being Retreats, Yoga classes and other therapies. She is an experienced NLP Practitioner, Reiki Master and Holistic Therapist.